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dear Q2A

for the last couple of weeks i have been wanking about 9 times a day and i think its starting to get a bit of OCD for it. i hate wanking as it is dirty and oooeyy, i recently started danger wanking :D (danger wanking is when i shout to my mum to come here and try to beat one off b4 she gets to you) its fun !!!!!!

do i have problems?

much love

What we suggest...

Hi, thanks for contacting q2a.

What you're describing is a sexual fantasy; many people use them to help them to become sexually aroused. Fantasies are scenarios that you would never act out in real life i.e. you wouldn't really masturbate in from of your Mum. In your own case it's the 'danger' of your Mum catching you in the act which adds to the general excitement. So to answer your question no, you don't have problems.

There are no rules about how often you're supposed to masturbate, it varies from person to person. Some people may only do it once a month, others may do it several times a day. So masturbating as often as you do doesn't mean that you've got OCD.

We don't know where you've got the idea from that masturbation is dirty. It used to be thought so a long time ago but it's now generally accepted to be a normal part of sexuality and a way of dealing with the increased sexual feelings that people experience during puberty. We agree that it can be messy but having a box of tissues handy will sort that out!

We hope you feel reassured by what we've said in our reply. If you'd like to find out more about masturbation here's where to go:

HELPLINE:

- Sexwise, freephone 0800 28 29 30, open 7am-midnight every day

BOOKS:

- How Sex Works by Elizabeth Fenwick & Richard Walker, pub. Dorling Kindersley
- SEXplained2…For Young People by Helen Knox, pub. Knox Publishing

WEBSITES:

-http://www.bbc.co.uk/switch/surgery/advice/sex_relationships/sex/masturbation/

-http://www.thesite.org.uk/sexandrelationships/sexuality/exploration/masturbationmanagement

Thanks once again for your enquiry. Please contact us again if you think we can help, about this or anything else.

Best wishes from q2a.

PS You'll have noticed that we have taken out all the various names that were included in your enquiry. We are sure you can work out why.

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